Safety is bullshit

[Melancton]

I leave a reflective exercise here: If you were to receive 10 million reais but were diagnosed with only 2 weeks left to live, with no chance of a cure, what would you do? Would you regret how you lived up to this point?

In this scenario, what would have more value, the company of a family and people who care about you, or a BMW? A modest life, but surrounded by your children, with your blood, or a lavish life but alone in a room? Choices.

Life is indeed fraught with uncertainties and insecurities. This relentless pursuit of security in work, relationships, or financial status is a mirage. It's critical to acknowledge that security, as most perceive it, is an illusion. However, this realization shouldn't lead us to despair or a nihilistic view of life. Instead, it should empower us to live more fully, with purpose and intention.

The truth is, the unexpected is a part of life. Jobs can be lost, relationships can end, and life can be unpredictable. But these uncertainties shouldn't paralyze us with fear. Instead, they should motivate us to focus on what truly matters: building resilience, cultivating meaningful relationships, and contributing to something greater than ourselves.

Regarding relationships and the societal systems, it's essential to navigate these with a clear understanding of their complexities and imperfections. It's not about resigning to fate but rather about engaging with life's challenges head-on, with courage and determination.

Death, the ultimate uncertainty, reminds us to live meaningfully. 'Memento mori' - remember you will die - serves not as a morbid fixation but as a call to action to live our lives with significance, making each moment count.

The discussion on emotional health is crucial. The difference between being occupied and worrying highlights the importance of action over futile anxiety. It's about taking control of what we can and letting go of what we can't. This doesn't mean ignoring the future but rather facing it with courage and preparation.

The call to 'BE A MAN' transcends traditional notions of masculinity. It's a call to embrace life's challenges, to live responsibly and with integrity, regardless of one's gender. It's about accepting life's insecurities while pursuing growth, excellence, and the betterment of ourselves and those around us.

The reflective exercise regarding the hypothetical scenario of receiving 10 million reais with only two weeks to live drives home the point: ultimately, it's not material wealth that gives our lives meaning, but the relationships we nurture, the lives we touch, and the legacy we leave behind. It's a powerful reminder to prioritize what truly matters.

In conclusion, facing life's insecurities and uncertainties with resilience, responsibility, and a focus on what truly matters can lead us to live more fulfilling lives. It's about making choices that align with our deepest values and aspirations, rather than succumbing to the fear of the unknown.